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How Do I Start Homeschooling My Child?

Mother and children beginning their homeschooling journey

Imagine waking up on a weekday morning without being rushed. There is no scrambling to get out the door, no packing lunches in a hurry, and no stressful car lines. Instead, you and your child can start your day with ease, read a book, make breakfast together, or even work on a math lesson in pajamas. You are free to enjoy your day, have quality time together, and learn at your child’s pace.

For most families, homeschooling is a welcome relief. But for those just beginning, it can be daunting. What are the laws? How do you select the best curriculum? Where do you start? And how do you know if you’re doing it “right”?

We are here to help you, and getting started can be simpler than you think. Let’s break it down step-by-step so you can start homeschooling with confidence.

Step 1: Get to Know Your State’s Homeschool Laws

Before you start planning lessons and selecting curriculum, the very first thing you should do is learn about your state’s homeschool laws. Homeschooling is legal in all 50 states, though the rules do vary. For some states, you may be required to submit paperwork, keep records of attendance, or participate in standardized tests, while others may have minimal or no oversight at all.

If you’re wondering what your specific state requires, click HERE to check out our USA map page and guide to state homeschooling laws.

*Tennessee Residents: If you’re enrolled with Graduates Academy, we handle all the legalities, notices, and paperwork for you—no worries at all! We’re committed to making the process of homeschooling as easy and stress-free as possible.

And the best part is, many states have little or no regulations for homeschooling at all! If you live in a state with minimal oversight, you may not be required to submit anything or simply an initial notification of intent.

Step 2: Notify Your Child’s School About Your Decision to Homeschool

Once you have submitted any required paperwork and verified your compliance with your state’s homeschooling laws, the next step is to inform your child’s present school in writing of your intention to homeschool. A written withdrawal letter is usually the best way to do this in order to ensure a smooth transition as well as for record-keeping purposes.

It is always a good idea to keep a copy of this letter in your records, just in case you ever may need to refer to it in the future. Schools also may have different procedures to withdraw your child, so it is best to check with your local school district to see if there are any special requirements.

Make this process easy by joining Graduates Academy today and downloading our pre-prepared Parent/Guardian Withdrawal Letter—save yourself the time and energy while making the process to start homeschooling even easier!

Need school records? You can request them yourself or authorize us to obtain them for you. Members can download our Records Request Form HERE to simplify the process and make the transition to homeschooling seamless.

Step 3: Choose Your Homeschool Approach & Find the Right Curriculum

Once you have officially pulled your child out of school and taken care of the legalities, it’s time to decide how you prefer to structure their education. Homeschooling is highly flexible, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach.

Some families adopt a more formal school-at-home approach with traditional lesson planning, while others take a more relaxed approach, such as Charlotte Mason, Montessori, or by blending a few different approaches. The best part? You don’t have to be tied to just one approach. You can change and adapt as you figure out what works best for your child.

Finding the Right Curriculum

One of the most common questions we receive for new homeschooling parents is: What curriculum should I use? The answer is: It depends on your child’s learning style as well as your family’s goals and needs.

There are many different curriculum options to choose from:

  • Structured, all-in-one programs that include full lesson plans.
  • Online courses and interactive learning platforms for more self-paced and independent study.
  • Textbook-based curricula for a more traditional approach.
  • Unit studies that integrate multiple subjects under one theme.

If you’re not sure, start with a flexible curriculum with the possibility of changing it. Most companies offer trial periods or trial lessons for free, so you can try it out first before committing. Remember, no curriculum will be perfect, and it’s okay to modify or switch completely if one isn’t working.

Step 4: Prepare Your Learning Environment & Daily Routine

One of the best things about homeschooling is its flexibility—you can be anywhere, any time, with no strict timetables or confined to a desk. Learning can happen anywhere: at the kitchen table, in the backyard, or curled up on the sofa with a wonderful book.

All the same, having a designated study area can be a real difference-maker. It doesn’t have to be fancy—a few bookshelves, minimal supplies, and a comfortable area in which to work and for your child to learn are enough. The key is to create an environment in which you and your child can focus while still feeling inviting and comfortable.

As for daily routines, every family will find a rhythm that works for them. There are homeschool families whose schedules are highly regimented, while there are others that take a more relaxed, go-with-the-flow approach. There is no right or wrong—just continue to make adjustments as needed. The beauty of homeschooling is the flexibility to tailor it and make it work for your family.

Step 5: Become Part of a Homeschool Community

You don’t have to do it alone! One of the best things you can do is connect with other families who homeschool. A little support and encouragement can make all the difference, whether you’re just getting started or facing new challenges during the year.

There are usually local co-ops, meetups, and enrichment programs in most areas, in which families get together for group classes, field trips, and other social activities. Facebook groups and other online homeschooling forums can also be a great place for asking questions, sharing ideas, and finding friends and real community where you live.

Some parents participate in co-ops, where many homeschooling families work together to teach the students different subjects. These are often a wonderful choice to give your child group learning experiences and friends while sharing the responsibility of teaching with other parents.

Not only is joining a homeschool community beneficial for your child, it’s also a wonderful way for you to connect with other parents with similar values and who educate their children in the same way. We highly recommend joining a local homeschool community right away after you begin homeschooling your child!

Step 6: Monitoring Progress and Record-Keeping

It is important in homeschooling to track your child’s progress, document their accomplishments, and maintain accurate records of their academics. To make it simple and stress-free, Graduates Academy provides a cloud-based parent portal through which you can easily track attendance, classes, grades, and print transcripts at your convenience. We want to make it easy for you to keep your child’s homeschool records organized, up-to-date, and easily accessible without any hassle.

While it is not always required to maintain additional records in certain states, many parents love keeping an educational portfolio to hold the work, projects, artwork, and other accomplishments of their child. Not only does it provide an easy way to display your child’s progress and a valuable keepsake, but it can also be a necessary asset in the event you may need documentation for state tests, transferring schools, or for admissions to colleges.

The best part? You don’t have to do it alone. Our goal is to make record-keeping as simple as it can be so you can focus on the things that matter most—your child and family!

And remember, the key to homeschooling is flexibility. If something isn’t working in a particular approach or curriculum, change it. Progress is the ultimate goal, and with homeschooling, you have the freedom to change direction and personalize your child’s education in a way that is the most beneficial to their long-term goals, interests, and success.

Start Homeschooling!

There’s no perfect time to begin—so why not now? You don’t need to have it all figured out by day one to start homeschooling. Just take it one step at a time, following the steps above, and trust your ability to make the best choices for your child. Homeschooling is more than just an educational choice; it is a chance to create lasting memories, strengthen the bonds of your family, and give your child the best education possible. You can do this—all you need to do is get started! Need more help? Contact us today!

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